I didn't want to post about Crystal until I got her permission...and I got that yesterday. Brett and I met Crystal about a month and a half ago. Crystal is a really amazing person. She has been through a lot, yet has such a good perspective on life.
We met Crystal because Brett's brother and sister in law knew her and let her mom know we were looking to adopt. Her mom sent me a text and talked to me on a Sunday night. We met Crystal on Monday. It was such a comfortable, laid back, nice "get to know you" meeting. Neither of us knew much about each other, other than she was pregnant and we were hoping to adopt. We sat and visited with her for a few hours, learned about each other, likes and dislikes and such. As soon as we left her home we ran to the store to pick up some yarn to make a gift for her than she mentioned she loved. She wanted to meet our whole family, and most local siblings were able to drop/postpone what they were doing to meet her. She wanted to know that we had a good support system. She loved them, and loved to see how relaxed and laid back things were. She told us she wanted to place her baby with us. The next evening she gave us things she had gathered for her baby: a bouncer, clothes, diapers, and baby coupons. Friday she was moving to St. George so this was our last chance to see her for a bit. We took a fun little travel care package with us for her to enjoy on her way to St. George. We have had many other outing with her since then.
We have developed a great love and friendship with Crystal. There have been many sleepless nights contemplating all that lies ahead. We will forever be grateful to her for her choice to place her daughter with us (yes, she is having a girl). We can't wait to welcome her into this world and our home in 15 days...the baby is coming that soon and we are soooo excited!!
